The other day, as we were driving somewhere or other, W announced that he had an Idea.
“You should teach cooking, mom!” he said excitedly. “Like you should be a teacher, and show people how to cook!” I explained that I did this already, at a few cooking schools. “I know you teach grown-ups,” he said with an eye roll, “I mean kids. You should teach kids how to cook.”
Not a bad idea, I told him. “You should teach me how to cook,” he added. “You haven’t taught me yet.” Which took me by surprise – I’ve been cooking with him, showing him how to chop and flip pancakes and make over-easy eggs and whatever else happens to come along, since he was so little he had to sit on the countertop to knead pizza dough.
But what he had in mind was a more structured cooking class, where the students sit and listen and the teacher demonstrates. I told him I’d teach him if he wanted me to, and that he could invite some friends over to learn too, if he wanted. This is our new plan – a series of cooking classes in our little kitchen nook. I’m already flashing back to playing school in an old playhouse in my friend’s back yard when I was his age. Except this time there will be no arguing over who gets to be the teacher.
We do often cook when his friends are over – naturally, the demand is most often for cookies. Whether he has guests ore not, I love that the kitchen is an electronics-free zone, save for the occasional recipe pulled up on the iPad. I’ve said before that cooking is a great way to spend screen-free time with your kids, and brush up on reading and math in the process. With the added bonus of food at the end.
Summer means less screen time and more outdoor time – a good thing, because W is turning into a little tech junkie. He has evolved from YouTube to Angry Birds to Spongebob and now groggily gropes around looking for the iPad within minutes of waking up. Arriving home from seeing the new Superman movie last night, he went directly to looking it up online. So we’re taking a Tech Timeout.
This is a challenge that encourages families to take a daily break from technology – disconnecting from all things electronic with the goal of helping spouses, parents and children build stronger bonds, communicate more personally and get more involved in each others’ lives. Good idea, no? Tech Timout Challenge by life insurance provider Foresters aims to bring awareness of the impact that digital devices are having on family time – they put out a call to action, asking people to turn off their electronics for an hour a day for a week. Just a week! We’re going to do it from now until September – or until the first snowfall, whichever comes first. And hopefully forever after that. It’ll be the Van Rosendaals – unplugged.
It’s for my sake more than his – we do limit his screen time, and ultimately I struggle with it the most. I’m hooked. The boys are OK with it – when it’s nice out there are lemonade stands to host and go-carts to ride – but I have a hard time not trying to fill every spare minute instagramming/tweeting/texting/emailing/documenting… I rarely watch TV, but the internet is just buzzing with so much interesting (and not so interesting) stuff I far too easily get sucked into. And there’s always someone to text or an email to answer. Being a self-employed writer, the lines are more than a little blurry between public and personal and work and home.
But with summer coming up, I need to wean myself off – to unplug and pay closer attention to those moments that aren’t going to be around forever. And spend more time with W while he’s still interested in doing so. So we’re going to devote an hour a day to do something together that doesn’t involve a screen of any kind – some days it will be building things or gardening or reading or practicing soccer – but often it will be a cooking “class”, either one on one, with B or a posse of his friends. I love this idea. Anyone who wants to take part can download a Tech Timeout™ challenge pledge form for all to sign and post on the fridge if you need a reminder to collectively unplug on a regular basis.
We came up with a list of things W wants to learn how to make. He’s mastered soups already, he says (although he likes to make them but not eat them), but wants to crank out his own pasta, make some ice cream and has a few ideas for upside-down cakes. To assess their actual cooking skills without me hovering alongside, I asked B and W to make a recipe from Everyday Kitchen for Kids, a book of recipes designed and written especially for kids to follow themselves, with minimal grown-up involvement. (Depending on their age and skill level, you may want to hover.) It was interesting to see them read and follow a recipe all on their own, and collaborate on the common goal of a batch of gooey mac & cheese. The kitchen was a disaster, but they made this all by themselves.
We’ll see what’s next.
This post was generously sponsored by life insurance provider Foresters, but the opinions and images are my own. For more information, visit techtimeout.com.